More About 30 Days to Growing In Your Faith
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The blog is coming to you a day early because tomorrow is the release date for my new book, 30 Days To Growing In Your Faith. I wanted to remind you that if you are still "planning" to get the book, you might want to pre-order it today to get the pre-order bonuses.
Last week I told you why I wrote this book on spiritual growth. This week I want to tell you why I began a book on "spiritual growth" by talking about "happiness".
It is okay to want to be happy.
The book begins with “pursuing happiness” as the starting point for growing spiritually. Not a typical place to start for a spiritual growth book.
A Christian might instinctively feel self-conscious about wanting to be happy. We might initially think we ought to have a more noble purpose in life. Yet, God has created us with a deep drive for happiness, and he uses that drive to draw us to Himself. Only He can satisfy us deeply in the long run. When we accept that, we can feel free to fan the flame of happiness, but always going to God to be satisfied.
But then, if we accept the legitimacy of happiness, our next challenge is to abandon ourselves to an eternal perspective. Because if we don't view reality the same way God does, we will never be happy. Eventually, when the blows of life get serious enough, or when the frustrations of life last long enough, we risk getting exasperated with God for His incessant refusal to bless our perfectly good desires and fulfill our perfectly reasonable plans.
But God is relentless. He loves us too much to allow us to be deeply happy with anything other then Himself.
C.S. Lewis said in a perceptive analogy, "It would seem that our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered to us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased."
That is easy enough to accept in principle, but living it out gets tricky, because “trials” are one of God’s central methods for getting us to let go of mud pies and lay hold of a holiday at the sea. It is counter-intuitive. It’s hard to do.
It’s no more strange than the fact that in athletics, we have to push our body to what feels like the breaking point if we are going to truly excel. Why should we be terribly surprised that the same thing is true spiritually?
Again, Lewis said, “We must stop regarding unpleasant or unexpected things as interruptions of real life. The truth is that interruptions are real life. Life is not immunity from difficulties, but peace in difficulties.”
Trials are a key to our ultimate happiness
And this is not hidden in Scripture. It’s lying there in plain sight in James 1:2-4: “Consider it all joy my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete lacking in nothing.”
So… there it is. Not hard to understand. We just don’t like it. We’d rather that spiritual growth could be accelerated by watching sunsets while eating chocolate while playing with puppies. But such is not the case.
We can be happy. Happier than the world can ever make us. But only God’s way. When we embrace that, we are ready to rise to the heights that God is offering us.
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- Only then will we be willing to abandon our own will in favor of God’s.
- Only then will we have the perseverance to absorb the blows that life will inevitably give us and keep on pursuing God’s higher will.
- Only then will we be able to avoid getting distracted, discouraged, and even defeated by God’s refusal to bless our will.
- The Importance of Gratitude
- The Mystery of Prayer
- The Challenge of Living Like Who We Have Become
- The Role of Pain and Suffering
- The Challenge of Discerning God's Will
- The Necessity of Mental Renewal
- The Importance of Scripture
- Spiritual Disciplines
- The Role of Trials
- The Power of Humility
- Phone and desktop wallpapers
- Daily reminder digital prints
- 6-page e-booklet on prayer that I wrote
Help spread the message, “Like” my Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/maxanders.author and invite your friends to do the same. If you know someone you think may find this blog valuable, please forward it to them. I am always glad to hear from readers. Write me at max@maxanders.com. I try to answer all emails, but, if not, I may address in future blogs the questions/issues you raise.